How can I be the change I want to see the world?

Seeing the world with less misery has kept me dreaming. So in my attempt to make this dream come true, I have come up with what makes my life miserable and its resolution.

Pleasing Everybody. It is the easiest way to avoid conflict, earn validation, consume energy and time, and get disappointed.

Since I know how powerful mind can create thoughts and its ability to make it a reality, the tendency to be right is so convincing it makes you forget other minds. The good news is so as everyone else. Being kind to stupid idea, nice to useless thoughts, and pleasing to ignorance are conflicts to the ability of one's mind. To avoid conflicts, I tend to forget my ability to reason and to converse. It makes me miserable.

What now? I resolve to express what I contemplated as right and be accountable of the consequence.Just have to give my best shot hoping that it will not kill anyone. And remind myself that I can also get hit because I chose to be around.  Otherwise, stop finding sweet chili.

Sweet Chillies

chili peppers (Photo credit: marzbars)

Let's learn from this story:

A rich merchant saw a man selling a small green fruit which he had never seen before. The merchant was hungry and the luscious green fruit looked so fresh and appetizing and the merchant was tempted and curious so he asked the vendor,

“What is this...?”

“Chillies, fresh green chillies,” said the hawker.

The merchant held out a gold coin and the vendor was so overjoyed that he gave the merchant the full basket of chillies.

Which Type are You?

Well, I guess the above image relates to writing activity. It's safe to be the average. But in a small organization finding its way to success, a strategist must be able to make plan long term goals by analyzing the risk, and be able to multitask in the balance in exercising risk-taking and cautious decision making to accommodate the task to be prioritized. 


Of course, we cannot find all those characteristics in one personality. This describes the role of these personalities in the success of an organization.


Which type are you?

If you can, would you?

Theirs is a life where an old, dirty ball kissing the dust is their only source of joy, where memories of their loved ones are their only possession, where their only hope is to have a food to be shared and wake up the next morning with body parts intact if not burned to death. This is the everyday reality of the children in South Sudan trapped in a war that gives meaning to Sam Childers’ life. His humanity made me watch the movie “Machine Gun Preacher” till the end. It makes me dwell on the question if I could, would I? 

Got Talent

In Australia's got talent, Daren Jones' (video here) talent already won the judges' favor with his 3F's, fat, fifty and fretty..

Here's the first four fords to transport you from face palm to smiley.

Mine are: Peaceful, Patient, Loyal, Talented. Well, that's how I am seeing  my face.

How we see ourselves is a talent that the strong got. Face it.

Q&A

That raised a question from a very good friend, "Can you equate being a perfectionist to having self-doubt? Because I became the critic of my own art and it limited my creativity"


My answer made me elaborate: Perfectionism is obsessing on things that one has no control. Self-doubt is the courage to accept one's weakness. Creativity is the ability to see beauty in what's available. Limitation is the key to a free mind.

Blow Up

"A child who burns ants to death with a magnifying glass simply for amusement may be called deranged. Substitute humans for the ants, and the child would be called god"-- Lindsey Brown

The image magnifies the idea of fun from malevolence to what is perceived to be having or being less.

First, my take on having fun for a wrong reason defines you as a person. A child being amused by killing is nasty. Killing a helpless ant is totally cruel. A parent that takes pride in the killing of a helpless ant is neither fabulous nor fun. It is insane.

Second, ant maybe helpless,less, for that matter, alone but its strength lies when with others. Ants can be envied for having fun and being productive with other ants but human find ways to CREATE his own amusement.

  

Being nasty to the ant that was deviated from the rest can be fun to a child because he doesn't know any better. And worse, fun derived from making the ant miserable denies one from being a better person. The fulfillment is not derived from intended fun but from "because I/we can" pun.


That third reason is my way of elaborating this:

Why?

The idea of having fun for the sake of it must be magnified. The fun derived from irritating others by showing off and be looked up to is an insane amusement.  


Human evolved from ant's social behavior. The fact that humans can do more than what ants can proves human can be better than bully an ant. 

I can be that child. But I grow up and magnify ideas instead.

KISS, my way

Keeping it simple and short (single-paged) is making up my way to info-graphics


This I found from the cyber world

And also this,

And this site gave me mouthful.

Motherhood

Mothers are the most forgiving people in the world. The following should not be mistaken.

If kids were sick, it doesn't mean that the mother is wrong in taking care of them, or they were not able to strengthen their immune system even if they were breastfed, it is just that kids must experience and eventually know what their body can tolerate, in order for them to enhance it.

If kids failed expectations, say to be good and smart, it doesn't mean that motherhood fails in recognizing them to be a model of their parents. It is just that kids have their own way and happy with that. Remember that it's too early for the kids to act as ourselves. Let them have their own lives to live.

Most importantly, if kids didn't learn, it is not because motherhood fails in doing the right thing. It is because she cannot forgive herself for doing everything wrong believing her choice is the only right.

The Good, The Bad and the Ugly

The sound track of the wild west movie. 

Balanced

Knowing the right and the left makes way to a straight direction. 

Sweet 16

It is not what it seems to be..

                 "Not homeless. Have a job. Just saying Hello!"

VLSM on KISS and MAKE UP

Variable Length Subnet Mask is defined by how many hosts per subnet in a given topology. The logic behind the computation of the subnet mask is to find how many bits of '0' to be borrowed to satisfy the required number of host per subnet.

And the rest is your command.

Detached

To manually include a member of the network, it must be detached or not directly connected. Manual configuration is a little bit tedious. For you have to 1: determine which are detached. 2. look for the interface that will lead you to connect to the required network.

This can be done in network, through the "ip route" command of the static routing. It is also the command used to configure default route, the path to go when the destination is not found in the local area network.

Dynamic and Static

Another note from my ever colorful network "drives"

Set Some Examples

I would always thought of decisions as based on the circumstance.

My Subnetting Way

KISS & MAKE UP: My way to solve subnetting.


You are free to copy the notes. Feel free to link and consider my intellectual property rights.

KISS & MAKE UP

My bliss is compounding every single day. And I would always want to share it with you as a sign of gratitude by making complicated things simple. 


( K )eep ( I )t  ( S ) imple and ( S )ingle-paged, ( M )y  ( A )ttempt  to ma( K )e  yo( U )r  ( P )aradise makes my way.


And this is it. 


I got inspired with Sacha Chua's Notes and thought of it to make a simple and short notes on the training I am doing.


It's full of functional colors that (I hope) would make the topic understandable, steps simpler and the examples more bearable.


I had fun doing it and would continue to do so. I wish you the same. 

Making Sense of It

Have you experienced that moment of bliss when all what you ever wanted comes to reality before your very eyes? And what you ever wish to do is to make others' life feel a fair share of how you feel and at least not to make other lives miserable?

I have until I see “Blindness”

An epidemic of Blindness struck a city with people of all walks of life gone blind with no apparent reasons. Suspected to be contaminating, those gone blind where contained in an old mental facility. With increasing number of victims and less support from the authorities, they started to lose their senses. 


They are blind and smell nothing of cleanliness and sanitation. They see only brightness and hear no angels. Their sight and taste elope to escape from feeling hopeless. Their common sense weakens when a narcissistic prick controls the food supply and slowly kills their appetite for sense of humanity, dignity and decency.


I feel for the congenital blind when given an opportunity to be great took advantage of the situation and in cahoots with the prick took over the distribution of food and obsessed on authority. When no more valuables to exchange for food, these lowlife creatures implemented exchanging the women to satisfy their flesh. I can only pity them.


I feel with the blinds standing in the dark where opportunist and users lurk around to attack what is left of them, their dignity. What do you expect from those miserable opportunist souls who have nothing but misery? They need company. 


I feel with the character of Julienne Moore who retained her sight despite being with the blinds and risk being contaminated to stand by her husband. It took her awhile to become really a ray of light to guide them to their freedom. She has to see the darkness first to make sense of it.


I guess, I don't have to be blind to see humanity. 

Playing Around

Recycling can be fun. Let's play...